Meet Desertmum

Image credit: Joy Photography

Hello there!

I’m Lucy, aka ‘Desertmum’, and I’m so glad you’re here.

I’m married to Desert Dad (not his real name), and spend my days largely caring for our crazy kiddoes Mister (8), Missy (6), Monkey (3) and Meerkat (3) (ditto).

Do you want to read about how bonkers our life is? Well you can do that right here. Our kids arrived through birth and adoption – why not browse my writings on adoption?

This blog is about ‘pursuing discipleship through the haze of early parenthood’. Fancy title – does it actually mean anything?


It means continuing to wrestle with aspects of our faith, even with baby brain. (And don’t anyone say that this can’t last for a decade.)

It means seeing God in the mundane and the everyday, allowing these seemingly-insignificant moments to inspire, teach and challenge, rather than frustrate, infuriate and madden. (Or maybe all six.)

It means thinking through our children’s discipleship, such as how they should behave in church, or what resources we can use at home to help develop their faith. (And then not really doing any of it because YOU ARE DOING ALL THE THINGS and someone stole your sleep, so you just pray for your kids and hope God does the rest.)

It means engaging with parenting decisions we all face, but from a godly perspective, trying to work out how to apply the Bible’s teaching to situations which are tough. And then being all like, “Lord, I CANNOT do this, and I AM NOT ABLE to do this”. (And then remembering Jonah, God’s grace, and a new tomorrow.)

It’s basically a blog about how I mess up every day.  A bit like watching Eastenders when you’re depressed, this blog is meant to make you feel much more confident about your own parenting, when you see what a hash I’m making of it.

Besides blogging, I’m attempting to become a writer, and my first book should be out Autumn 2019. (Why not click here to make sure you don’t miss the updates on that? What’s that I hear? Because you can’t be bothered? You lazy so-and-so. Click that clicker. What’s the worst that could happen? You can always unsubscribe when you realise I really am a pretty incompetent parent and Christ-follower.)

What do I love? Why do you care?

Because this is why you clicked on this page, of course, so I will tell you. I love to cook, bake, write lists, entertain, talk, make music and eat.

What don’t I like? I’m not sure you’re bothered, but you and I have gone too far now to go back, so here’s the list. I don’t like beetroot, having nothing to do, wearing black, football, the time it takes to make me look less shattered of a morning, and rain.

Thank you for being here. I do mean that. I promise I’m a nice person and not a sociopath so, given that, would you like to head over to Facebook and follow me? Or Twitter and I may even follow you back. And don’t forget to check out my Pinterest page because it’s taken me flippin’ ages to work out how to use it.

Hey, and don’t forget how keen you were to sign up for my newsletter. As a thank you, I’ll send you ‘Ten survival tips for newly adoptive parents’ absolutely free! Hamster bedding for all.

4 Replies to “Meet Desertmum”

  1. Came across your site, not sure how, but I really enjoyed reading everything, from the talk about schools to the adoption. Massively proud of everything you’re doing. Also, your pics look amazeballs 😉
    You seem to being both a great mum and a great writer. As an uncle I can offer some advise – make “schoom” noises when the kids knock over dominoes. It’s earned me much kudos.
    lots of love
    Chris C

  2. Hi, really enjoy the blog! Remember you recommending a book about couples and ministry. Can you remember what it’s called? Have tried looking through old posts but can’t find it!
    Thanks Lou x

    1. Hi Lou, thanks so much for reading! I remember the book but had to look up the title as I’d forgotten too! It’s Glorious Union, by Adrian and Celia Reynolds. Another which I’ve heard is very good, and on my to-read list, is Sacred Privilege by Kay warren. A bit different, as aimed at spouses of those in full time ministry, but I think she has a lot of wisdom. Blessings xx

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